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Are you giving more than you're getting?
Replying instantly. Cancelling your plans to stay free for him. Keeping your needs small so you don't seem "too much." Ten quick questions show you exactly where you're over-giving in love, and what to change first.
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Think about the last few months, not your best week.
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Start this week: three small shifts
The 15-minute rule. When you want to double-text or reply instantly, set a 15-minute timer. Most urges pass. The ones that don't are worth sending calmly.
Ask once, then believe the answer. "I like consistent communication. Is that something you can do?" Then watch what he does.
Keep one plan you'd normally cancel. Notice how it feels to choose yourself first.
"The pick me asks, 'Does he want me?' The chooser asks, 'Do I want this?'"
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